Dating male in trinidad and tobago
“They’re vain, womanizing, lying, cheating, narcissistic, misogynistic, pigs.” You name it. “Trini men no good girl, go get yuhself a German or some Nigerian doctor. ” But wait, hold up – my Trini fellas can’t all be that bad.
While all of us can think of at least one lady in our lives who does this, the attention she gets usually remains superficial and short-lived.
At this stage, few can truly win his heart, as he is just plain superficial himself.
Let us start with our subject as a young, seven-year-old-boy, where innocence is usually still intact.
Still interested in their toys and getting dirty, this group is genuinely confused when young girls hit them, knock them down on the playground, try to kiss them or just plain annoy them.
The boys have no idea that this is actually flirting (I know it sounds strange, but it’s true. full of raging hormones, sweat glands, and misplaced emotion.
I personally still “punch” a guy in the shoulder on a date, it’s my way of saying, “I like you”). As a wise chantwell once sang: “We doh watch face, only waist”, and for some, this is quite true.
The classic Trini man is undeniably charismatic, and it’s no wonder that women try to figure him out, and just how the heck do you get to his heart (And no, it isn’t always through his stomach! Looking at the complex specimen that we have – the Trinidadian male – we can only hope to break the surface of this multi-faceted creature.What teenaged boy out there doesn’t like a woman who could throw waist?Now, is what I am saying seem to be based purely on the superficial? But let’s face it – no woman puts on her bubbly laugh, and slips on a pair of sexy personality ‘jus so’.We use hair, makeup and accessories to attract the opposite sex, and yes, men see the hair, the face, the breasts, the legs, and the waist.Whether you agree with me or not, the physical is priority in a teenaged, Trinidadian boy’s life, and it can’t be easy to be objective, when you live in a party island, surrounded by beautiful women.I’m not saying in order to gain the attention of a man, one must strut around damn near naked.