Finding out your significant other has a low score is an opportunity to educate and become closer.87% of survey respondents said they would actively encourage their partner to fix it and only 2% said it may be cause for breaking up. You want to connect with someone who can respect your financial values. Think of it as a shortcut to understanding someone's values and everyday habits. She teaches you how to be an adult, and is also the host of our Adulting 101 events.
Suze Orman says that, "Before you get involved in a relationship or anything, FICO [credit score] first, then sex.” Okay, that’s a little old-school and sex back then probably meant marriage and kids, but you definitely need to have an idea before you’re even close to looking at your Netflix-and-chill partner like a life partner. You could even make a game out of it and see who can increase their score faster.
When you want to take things next level and buy something together like a house or a car on credit, their low score could cost you by getting charged a much higher interest rate (or even getting declined).
My friends always ask for my financial fitness advice and it's often around stuff like when they should talk about finances with their partner or how do they tell their spouse about the credit card debt that funded their shoes and booze-filled 20s. They might ball out on credit to look good at the club but when an emergency comes up, they could be f*cked and potentially relying on you to clean up their mess. Before you have the talk, start looking for signs that indicate that your SO might not be on top of their credit.
Your credit report is your financial report card and your credit score is your grade. Things such as: they're really disorganized, they're forgetful about dates and deadlines, they get a lot of phone calls that they don't answer in front of you, among others.
Together, they show if you've got your life together. They may have issues with priorities; there is nothing wrong with being the life of the party but I always tell my pals that when it comes to choosing a partner, you need a mullet man/woman (business in the front, party in the back). Their hotline will be blinging with private or blocked calls on the regular and that's just awkward—are they hiding something scandalous? If you notice these things, you should probably have the talk.
Let's say you're in a relationship with someone and the two of you want to buy a house. But either way, you should definitely have it before you combine finances/get serious.
Chantel is the founder of Holler For Your Dollar, a consulting firm that jump-starts anyone who’s ready to dive into the world of Adulting or entrepreneurship.Her role at Mogo puts her skills to use creating and teaching digestible, yet educational financial literacy content geared to millennials and daring entrepreneurs.Ideally Marriages are about taking each other for better or worse, for richer or poorer.However in real life the prospect of finding out that whatever you have worked so hard for all your life can be nullified by a partner in debt is far from appealing.If your credit rocks and theirs sucks, that might not bode well for your future together. According to Plenty Of Fish (only one of the biggest dating sites ever), having this talk is a good time to find out some other things that are related: “Is this a one time expense, or an on-going issue? Once you get honest and help each other wherever you can, hopefully it won’t seem like an insurmountable issue.” Talk about your own budget and credit score.And sure, you're probably not—and you shouldn't be—picking a partner based on their net worth, but it is important to be aligned with someone who has habits and goals that are on your level. Show them that you have a positive relationship with money and talk about your own goals to encourage them to do the same.